Online Dating In The City

*Again, writing this while I wait for my date with Mr. Weedman* Soooo... tell me how he is late again!! How does he not know I do not like tardiness. This time he was only 14mins, so I guess he is getting better. But again as soon as he told me he parked and was on his way, I reminded him to bring a mask then he tells me he forgot his mask in his car, so he had to go back... AGAIN! The starting of this date is deja vu. We are in days of Corona he should be used to carrying around a fuck'n mask! I told him he needed those lanyards that old people use for their glasses, but for his mask. So the date went well, but then again, I think all my dates go well until there is no second date. He wanted Korean food so we went to Korea House on Bloor and Christie. We were going to meet at 7:30pm, but as mentioned above he was late!  When he arrived I asked him about something about his place (I can't remember what it was) and he said you can see for yourself. Even though he lived 15 mins ...

 When you are on these dating apps you realize that people who are on one are on multiple, just like I am. Even though I swipe left some people come back to my rotation, sometimes weeks after, but sometimes 5 swipes later. I have decided to reach out to a matching service after multiple friends have told me to look into it. One friend suggested I reach out to a service called Match Me Canada (www.matchmecanada.ca). I looked at their website, they are located in the financial district in Toronto, which  is a good sign seeing so rent is super high. I equate that to them being successful. They do not have pricing on their website, so I had to schedule a call to see what they were all about. I spoke with Rebecca who is a match maker and she informed me what the service was all about. They have a coaching staff and people who research to find mates, one thing I like about this is that you can get feedback, which is something you cannot get on a dating app. For instance, I thought m...

 This is my first time going out on a date with a dad. Specs: Chinese 39 Dad to a 3 year old who is on the spectrum Separated for 2 years, amicable break up Lives and works in Vaughan Born in Indian Speaks 6 languages (English, Cantonese, Mandarin, Hakka, Hindi, and something else...)  Met on Bumble Things in common I have with this guy is that we like to drink and we started hitting the gym again. I went on a date with, lets say Mr. Hakka (that is the language he speaks with his parents). I know... I went out to play on a weekday! But during this pandemic why not? I was actually surprised when he said lets meet up on Tuesday, we were matched up on Saturday and 3 days later we met up. During our online conversation I asked him where he grew up, he said that was a conversation to have over beer, I was intrigued. Today we were talking to each other throughout the day, he had gone to the gym and skipped lunch. He actually showed up on our date at 6:05pm when the date was for 6:30...

 In my previous post I mentioned how I had a great time with Weedman (refer to Dating during Corona (Covid-19) Times Part 2 - Late and Annoyed ), which I did. But the thing I failed to mention was that we ended up sleeping together after the first date. This was my first time sleeping with a guy after the first date. We had a GOOD evening!!!! The next morning he kissed me goodbye and told me to message him when I was done church. But he messaged messaged me first, which I thought was a good sign. He also told me that it was production time, so he was going to be busy, which was fine. Prior to Covid, I used to be super busy, to the point where I had my own assistant. The messages were coming in far and wide in between, which I understood because when I was busy at work, I was only able to message guys twice a night.  On Monday, I had a bad day. I semi told him about it, but all he could say was "can your brothers help?". After that there was no follow up, no check in to see if...

I don't  know what it is about this pandemic, perhaps it's boredom, but I have been willing to go on more dates, even though I have gain about 20 pounds after gaining 40 initially! I figure if they can like me with my pandemic weight, they really like me for who I am.  Specs: Asian Works for a weed company in Hamilton Used to write jingles Lives in mid-town in a condo, his brother and parents live in the same building Drives a X2 He has a J name, it's actually one of my favourite names I am not sure if all women do this, but when I am excited about a date, I will eat less the night before that way I am not bloated the next day, and give myself a facial that way my face looks refreshed. During this pandemic, my skin has been going through some horrible shit, I have broken out many times due to the sun. This time the night before I gave myself a facial Dermologica Hydration mask, drank lots of water, and I worked out. I ordered a dress online from H&M that I have deemed a...