Online Dating In The City

 I have been speaking with a guy whom we will call Snob, but I might change that that older Gym Guy. The way he talks is very reminiscent of Gym Guy and that’s probably why I can’t stop thinking about him.  Like Gym Guy, snob is very busy with his job and is constantly on the go. Is that their out when the date doesn’t go well? They have tattoos that I am not too fond of. Snob made a reference, insinuating that because I met him that my life would be better.  Similarities: they both wake up at 4am they think they can change the world, steps not too sure they are in the midst of writing a book they are not happy with where they are in life; working towards getting better - I guess that's a good thing think they can help me at times would say shit to make me feel dumb, but you can easily call them out on them, it's their communication sends me random pics - Gym guy sent me pics of him as a baby, shirtless pics; Snob sent me pics of a suspension for his car, shirtless pic, a...

 Not too sure what happened after date 3.. He was all of a sudden a lot busier.. didn't message as much. I sort of understood where he was coming from.. He doesn't trust his trainers so I guess he has taken on more clients, considering he charges $250/hour that goes straight to his pockets. We were supposed to go on date 4 on Thursday because on Friday, I was going to Chicago.... but he had messaged Thursday afternoon to tell me he's not in a condition to meet up and have a conversation.. and slowly.. the messages are far and in between... sus? We were still chatting here and there, since I lost bowling, I owed him a facial. I didn't want to take him to a $200 facial that I've been wanting to try and I didn't want to take him to a facial place where I didn't know their standards. So, I asked him if he wanted to go to a facial or see Tina Turner musical. He said definitely the musical. I went a head a purchased the tickets for $300 (both). But because of his ...

As we were sleeping and I was holding him (I am the big spoon), I thought to myself, I hope he finds safety in me. When he lost his keys, I don't know where he would've stayed. As for me, I would've just called one of my friends to see if I can sleepover. But I would never be in that situation. The whole night and morning he was only worried about his keys and how he was going to get into the gym and his home. We grabbed coffee from Starbucks (he paid) and came back to my place and started watching Netflix. After, he kept pacing around my apartment, so I offered to take him out for a walk. We were slowly finding ways to get his keys. He was able to obtain his gym key, but the house key was not as easy to obtain because his landlord is currently out of town. We drove to the lake to go for a walk to kill time, I asked him if he was hungry and we decided to eat lunch after our walk; but turns out he was actually starving. He thought he saw a mattress on our walk, but it was a ...

 A week later we went on date 2. Prior to going on this date, we were talking as often as we did prior to the first date, which I thought was a good sign. He planned our second date, it was to Ballrooom for bowling. Since I busted my knee, he asked if it was ok enough for me to go bowling. Note: I HATE bowling. I also warned him my face was not as nice looking as it was the previous date because I got microneedling done. While we were talking though out the week, he kept alluding to the fact that he could take care of me, I can potentially quit my job or I can go work for him. I should also note, that when I asked when we were going to meet he said 2026.  He seemed super frazzled because he was running late, that is because I'm the one who was first running late and pushed the meet up time by 10 minutes, he came 20 minutes after that. When we started bowling, I told him, I HATE bowling.. He asked me why I didn't say anything, I told him, no one has ever planned a date for me; ...

  As of right now, I have gone on 3ish dates with GG.  Gym Guy ("GG") owns a gym profile says 5' 4 2 had a gf got a place together broke up around Covid possibly drinks too much (drinks 2-4) glasses a day with maybe one day off I think has gone through a lot in his life, a lot of hardship - I was correct seems to be down to earth I'm supposed to go on a date with this guy on Saturday, I told him where and what time.. lets see what he comes up with Date 1: Four Seasons dBar This was out of convenience. I was celebrating my friend's birthday in Yorkville we first went for a scalp analysis and wash at Objibik   and then had high tea at Four Seasons dBar . Since I was already there I told GG to meet me, while I was there I made a reservation at dAzur , their patio. I had to change the meet up time because I wanted to spend more time with my friend; his flexibility was appreciated. He actually came 10 minutes early. I didn't even have a chance to see my friend off,...

 I have been paying for Bumble for about 2 weeks now. This is what has happened so far..... Guy 1 - Gym Guy ("GG") owns a gym profile says 5'4 had a gf got a place together broke up around Covid possibly drinks too much (drinks 2-4) glasses a day with maybe one day off I think has gone through a lot in his life, a lot of hardship seems to be down to earth I'm supposed to go on a date with this guy on Saturday, I told him where and what time.. lets see what he comes up with Guy 2 - Chef he's a chef Dad is getting married in Thailand to a Thai Woman he's going to the wedding in a few weeks for 4-5 weeks can only meet on Saturdays at 10pm, Sundays and Mondays (these are all my fucking sleep hours) seems to be nice loves whiskey - wants to go on a whiskey date, but on at 10pm? I don't think so.. on a Sunday? I don't think so, on a Monday? I don't think so... So, I don't think this whiskey tour is happening we will probably do a Sunday brunch and se...