Online Dating In The City

The date with the Boss 1.0 went ok, thought there would be a possible second date until I got this text. He was being a little flirty with me admitting that he groomed himself in case the date went really well. LIKE HELLLOOO!!!!!! I reminded him that we weren't going to hook up. But whatever.. My friend advised that I should keep an open mind and not go for looks. As long as I am compatible with them, who cares what they looked like? In one night, I had three friends send me a Tiktok video on a speed dating opportunity from Single in the City. I thought, he y why not!? So, I s igned up for the Oakville location thinking maybe these would be home owners. lol. When I first entered, I had immediate regret! As I sc anned the room  the women were all dressed up, spent time on their looks; while some of the guys just looked like they threw something on from the floor while others tried to muster up to dress up.  Originally I signed up for 27 to 38 professionals because I wanted some...

Now that the weather is getting nicer, I am ready to go on dates again. Today, April  24, 2022 I went on my first date in 2 years. Weedman is still around for my biweekly trist, but he knows that I am looking for something more serious, while he is not (or maybe just not with me). I have been talking to a guy who let’s just call him my boss 1.0. Like my boss he is Japanese, but that’s the only thing they have in common. He is looking for something casual, but told him I already have that with someone. But he still wanted to meet. I told Weedman about the date, he is ok with it. I also suggested he lives his best hoe life, but he said he didn't have time. Prior to this date, we have been speaking for at least a month. First week, he was gone for 10 days to Vancouver. Then I cancelled because I didn't want to go on a date, in case I failed my M2 exam. He then sent me this text and I almost cancelled. I know it was a joke, but I don't know him and we haven't met.  Specs o...

Tinder Swindler is a popular Netflix documentary about girls who were conned out of hundreds of thousands of dollars. People who have watched the documentary think, how dumb are these women!? How can they get conned like that? But after watching the documentary, I can definitely see how they were conned. Remember I lent money to my ex-boyfriend. I wasn't about to get conned, I took legal actions; I can't believe  Shimon Hayut aka  Simon Leviev  didn't face any punishment. In Ontario, if you can prove that the money was a loan and not a gift, you have a case, anything over $10K is considered criminal; under $10K it's civil suit. My friend recently sent me an article called  Organized crime has infiltrated online dating with sophisticated 'pig-butchering' scams  About Chinese organized gangs posing as young attractive professionals and getting women to invest in crypto currencies. I know not a lot of people read my blog, but I thought I would put it out there on h...

Mama and sister are at it again! My aunt knows someone at their church who has a single son in Alberta... Sound familiar? Same Aunt (see Going the Distance )! This guy is younger and has his own business. When my mom brought this up she called me and wanted my blessing to give him my details. She called me at a bad time, I had to go to the bathroom and she kept asking if tattoos are ok. She's like, "who cares if he has tattoos, as long as he's a nice guy!" I almost told her I have a tattoo myself AND I am getting another one in March. My mom has no idea that I have had a tattoo for the past 20 years. Anyways, this guy lives in Calgary, but not just Calgary, apparently in boontown Calgary (OHHH HELLLS NO!!!). BUTTTT his business is that he owns a burger and ice cream restaurant (OHHHH HELLLLLS YES!!!!!!!), apparently it's a franchise and I am hoping it's Rudy's   Or a Rudy's type burger joint (I have replaced McDonalds with Rudy's). Who knows if thi...

I have been training with Crush Trainer for over a year now. During that time he had asked me many times when my birthday was. I have told him many times (I think he had asked me 5 times), because he asked me so many times, I have written it in a card.  This year my birthday landed on a Saturday. We trained on Friday, I guess it was wrong of me to think he would get me something, but he didn't say anything. Friday night, my Jujitsu trainer cancelled, so I reached out to Crush Trainer to see if he wanted to train on Saturday.. My Birthday Day!! He messaged me Friday night to tell me he couldn't. Which was fine.. Saturday morning comes, he doesn't say Happy Birthday.. Saturday afternoon comes, still nothing... Saturday evening comes still nothing... I posted a story on my Instagram thanking everyone for my gifts and birthday wishes. He saw it and still nothing. Then I was thinking ok.. maybe he has a gift for me and he's going to say happy birthday on Tuesday when I see h...

It's the New Year.. People always make new years resolution to make themselves better. But, why not just have a year of regrets?? What why there aren't any disappointments?  This year for me, I plan to fulfill my 18 year old self's dreams.  When I was 18: I thought I would have a somewhat of a sex life like Sex and the City, and I came nowhere even close to even a city. To achieve this... "Guess who's back... back again..... Weedman's back, tell a friend..." (sing it in the tune of Eminem's, Guess Who's Back"   After watching the Choclair music video Lets Ride, I have always wanted to get a motorcycle. I got my M1 over the holidays, and motorcycle school is the next step. I won't get a nice bike at first because, you know, I might crash it, but eventually I would like a BMW (I hate BMW car drivers, but not BMW bikers) or a Ducati? Hoping to do my motorcycle school in April.  Tattoo of Cherry Blossoms, this is scheduled for March Breast Lif...