Online Dating In The City

 Not too sure what happened after date 3.. He was all of a sudden a lot busier.. didn't message as much. I sort of understood where he was coming from.. He doesn't trust his trainers so I guess he has taken on more clients, considering he charges $250/hour that goes straight to his pockets. We were supposed to go on date 4 on Thursday because on Friday, I was going to Chicago.... but he had messaged Thursday afternoon to tell me he's not in a condition to meet up and have a conversation.. and slowly.. the messages are far and in between... sus? We were still chatting here and there, since I lost bowling, I owed him a facial. I didn't want to take him to a $200 facial that I've been wanting to try and I didn't want to take him to a facial place where I didn't know their standards. So, I asked him if he wanted to go to a facial or see Tina Turner musical. He said definitely the musical. I went a head a purchased the tickets for $300 (both). But because of his ...

Sooo.. this is the same guy as "Another Scammer - I need to teach a Master Class" . Instead of writing about it, I have decided to post our screen shots. The guy who lives at Spadina Subway station, who is learning Astro Chemistry through his relatives (pt 2). Background - so this guy doesn't want to meet until we develop an online relationship. I don't know how many ways I can say no, I am not going to waste my time developing a virtual relationship. I thought I would see how long this would last and I would say, 3 days is long enough.  There were a lot of misunderstandings and miscommunications, I don't understand his logic. I told him I was Korean, but that I was raised here and then he asks if I am a half blood? What the fuck is that? Just speaking with him my frustrations grew because I had no idea what he was talking about or referring to. Sometimes this Chinese fob makes sense and other times, I have no fucking idea what he is trying to say. To him, because...

 Sooo.... Apparently I am a magnet for these Chinese scammers!!! I randomly got a message on WhatsApp in Chinese. I Google translated it and it basically said "Hi Gina, I got your number from ....... I am interested in buying a property." I pretty much wrote back and was like I am not Chinese and I am not Gina. I pretty much deleted our messages as we went along because I knew I didn't want to speak with this guy, but he kept persisting.  Stats:  Chinese Lives in California Has been in the States for 3 years Apparently looking to buy a place  So I asked him if he was looking to buy a place in Toronto because he messaged a 416 number. He said housing prices in Toronto is too high... Yet, he can afford to buy a place in Cali? Assuming he's looking to buy in SF or LA? Toronto housing prices are expensive, but you can always look outside of Toronto. Anyways, he seemed shady anyways. He kept asking me what he should call me, instead of saying, "what's your name?...

  Wow, I didn't think I would get scammed again.... But then again when it happened, it was around this time.  "Stats": Asian Born in China Raised by Grandmother is San Francisco  Moved to Toronto earlier this year Works out at the gym 6 times a week Power Tech - Works for a wind turbine company?! The reason why I think this guy is a scammer is because of the following. He gave me his full name and his date of birth wayyyy to easily. Name Mark Teng, date of birth July 4, 1981. If this guy turns out to be a legit guy, I will obviously take this down. The way he told me his birthday was 04/07/1981, at first looking at this, I would have thought it was April 7, because that is how we write dates in North America, we write, month day year.. Everywhere else around the world writes day month year. The only reason why I realized it was July was because he told me he was a Cancer sign. I gave him my birthday, but without the year, but online it has my age, so it's easy to cal...

Out of anger, I was going to write about every intimate thing, but to be fair we did have good times. I do think he is a good guy, but perhaps I wasn't the person for him. So, I just decided to write about the Broken Promises, Lies, and the Lack of Effort and also, some signs that this was coming and that he wasn't all that he seemed, under Should've Known Better. Lies - I am his best friend - I am the second more important person in his life after his family - He doesn't own his house - I work in real estate, not too sure why he would lie about that, the title is under his parent's name. Lack of Effort - no present for Christmas (understandable because we were only dating for a month), but didn't even go out for dinner - Forgot my birthday - Didn't make up for my birthday - Said he was going to quit smoking (didn't) - Said he was going to quit drinking (didn't) Broken Promises - When we make plans I will never cancel - since the d...