Online Dating In The City

 Not too sure what happened after date 3.. He was all of a sudden a lot busier.. didn't message as much. I sort of understood where he was coming from.. He doesn't trust his trainers so I guess he has taken on more clients, considering he charges $250/hour that goes straight to his pockets. We were supposed to go on date 4 on Thursday because on Friday, I was going to Chicago.... but he had messaged Thursday afternoon to tell me he's not in a condition to meet up and have a conversation.. and slowly.. the messages are far and in between... sus? We were still chatting here and there, since I lost bowling, I owed him a facial. I didn't want to take him to a $200 facial that I've been wanting to try and I didn't want to take him to a facial place where I didn't know their standards. So, I asked him if he wanted to go to a facial or see Tina Turner musical. He said definitely the musical. I went a head a purchased the tickets for $300 (both). But because of his ...

Out of anger, I was going to write about every intimate thing, but to be fair we did have good times. I do think he is a good guy, but perhaps I wasn't the person for him. So, I just decided to write about the Broken Promises, Lies, and the Lack of Effort and also, some signs that this was coming and that he wasn't all that he seemed, under Should've Known Better. Lies - I am his best friend - I am the second more important person in his life after his family - He doesn't own his house - I work in real estate, not too sure why he would lie about that, the title is under his parent's name. Lack of Effort - no present for Christmas (understandable because we were only dating for a month), but didn't even go out for dinner - Forgot my birthday - Didn't make up for my birthday - Said he was going to quit smoking (didn't) - Said he was going to quit drinking (didn't) Broken Promises - When we make plans I will never cancel - since the d...