Online Dating In The City

 I went on Bumble because I was falsely hopeful yet again... My work friend have gone on some amazing dates (she pays for Bumble, I should real pay at least for two month). The date that I recently went on. Specs: 42 We actually went to the same middle school and high school YouTube content creator - Toronto & Travel content Smart/Intelligent Lives at Yonge and Eg No car Broke up with this girlfriend 6 months ago Father passed First it had annoyed me that he wanted me to pick the time and the place. The first, first date we were supposed to go on he cancelled because his friend was moving to NY and they were throwing a going away party. That was fine, I ended up flying out to Vancouver for the weekend. When we picked a new date, again, I had to pick a time and place. Since my girlfriends and I were going to do brunch in Toronto, I decided to meet at 2:30pm at a cafe by Bloor and Christie. I also wanted Hodo Kwaja (Walnut Cake) and I needed to pick up new face lotion, so it was ...

 Seriously!!! I don't know what to say.... Is this a panty dropping line? I don't remember who this guy is, but clearly by asking me if I am looking for a new FWB I have spoken with him 3+ years ago. I have been FWB with Weedman since July 2020 and we are still hooking up to this day. BUT! Fucking Weedman has been routine, it's familiar and lately it has gotten lazy.. He's lazy, I am lazy; so fucking has been stale. We used to hook up for hours (or what felt like hours) at a time, but now I think it last about 10 mins? There are times when I fall asleep before he finishes.  I am thinking of maybe meeting up with this guy. He did send me a picture of him, gives me Andrew Tate vibes, but who knows..  He wants to meet at a Tim Hortons and then go from there. He said he will have snacks and video games prepared. Is this a hook up or is this a line that pedos say? As I mentioned before, I just need content for my blogs. Lets see what happens with this guy! **Since startng th...

My aunt thought she had someone for me, yet again.  Specs: teacher lives on his own near Etobicoke Christian few years older than me While I was speaking with him something felt familiar. I continued to speak with him and I knew who he was. I asked him some questions pertaining to him.... He turned out to be Super Christian - Not a Match . I knew this wasn't going to work out. But I suggested we meet to appease our parents. He said, 'I remember you, we didn't work out because you were lost in faith" .... yeah.. that was the reason.. I told my mom that I had already met with him and that it didn't work out. She thought because he had a new job teaching that things would work out.  He still helps his parent's at the store, but he just started teaching. We decided to meet at the Starbucks near my place. Funny, when we first met it was at a Stabucks near my place when I lived Downtown Toronto. We grabbed coffee and walked around the block 4 times.. He doesn't d...

The date with the Boss 1.0 went ok, thought there would be a possible second date until I got this text. He was being a little flirty with me admitting that he groomed himself in case the date went really well. LIKE HELLLOOO!!!!!! I reminded him that we weren't going to hook up. But whatever.. My friend advised that I should keep an open mind and not go for looks. As long as I am compatible with them, who cares what they looked like? In one night, I had three friends send me a Tiktok video on a speed dating opportunity from Single in the City. I thought, he y why not!? So, I s igned up for the Oakville location thinking maybe these would be home owners. lol. When I first entered, I had immediate regret! As I sc anned the room  the women were all dressed up, spent time on their looks; while some of the guys just looked like they threw something on from the floor while others tried to muster up to dress up.  Originally I signed up for 27 to 38 professionals because I wanted some...

Now that the weather is getting nicer, I am ready to go on dates again. Today, April  24, 2022 I went on my first date in 2 years. Weedman is still around for my biweekly trist, but he knows that I am looking for something more serious, while he is not (or maybe just not with me). I have been talking to a guy who let’s just call him my boss 1.0. Like my boss he is Japanese, but that’s the only thing they have in common. He is looking for something casual, but told him I already have that with someone. But he still wanted to meet. I told Weedman about the date, he is ok with it. I also suggested he lives his best hoe life, but he said he didn't have time. Prior to this date, we have been speaking for at least a month. First week, he was gone for 10 days to Vancouver. Then I cancelled because I didn't want to go on a date, in case I failed my M2 exam. He then sent me this text and I almost cancelled. I know it was a joke, but I don't know him and we haven't met.  Specs o...

Tinder Swindler is a popular Netflix documentary about girls who were conned out of hundreds of thousands of dollars. People who have watched the documentary think, how dumb are these women!? How can they get conned like that? But after watching the documentary, I can definitely see how they were conned. Remember I lent money to my ex-boyfriend. I wasn't about to get conned, I took legal actions; I can't believe  Shimon Hayut aka  Simon Leviev  didn't face any punishment. In Ontario, if you can prove that the money was a loan and not a gift, you have a case, anything over $10K is considered criminal; under $10K it's civil suit. My friend recently sent me an article called  Organized crime has infiltrated online dating with sophisticated 'pig-butchering' scams  About Chinese organized gangs posing as young attractive professionals and getting women to invest in crypto currencies. I know not a lot of people read my blog, but I thought I would put it out there on h...

Mama and sister are at it again! My aunt knows someone at their church who has a single son in Alberta... Sound familiar? Same Aunt (see Going the Distance )! This guy is younger and has his own business. When my mom brought this up she called me and wanted my blessing to give him my details. She called me at a bad time, I had to go to the bathroom and she kept asking if tattoos are ok. She's like, "who cares if he has tattoos, as long as he's a nice guy!" I almost told her I have a tattoo myself AND I am getting another one in March. My mom has no idea that I have had a tattoo for the past 20 years. Anyways, this guy lives in Calgary, but not just Calgary, apparently in boontown Calgary (OHHH HELLLS NO!!!). BUTTTT his business is that he owns a burger and ice cream restaurant (OHHHH HELLLLLS YES!!!!!!!), apparently it's a franchise and I am hoping it's Rudy's   Or a Rudy's type burger joint (I have replaced McDonalds with Rudy's). Who knows if thi...