NEEDY BABIES!

Yes online dating is easier because there isn't the face to face contact. BUT being needy is NOT OK! Being needy in person is not ok and being needy online is not ok!

Needy Baby #1
Specs:
33 years old
Studying to become a Physician's Assistant, but doesn't know whether he's going to get in
Sort of a 'Smart Alec'
Last relationship - approx a year ago (was cheated on) - well... is it really cheated on when technically he was the "other man"? So, she cheated on her boyfriend with this guy, but ended up going back to her boyfriend.

I decided to talk to someone who lives in Buffalo.. Which I don't care, because I know I will never meet him, so what's the harm talking to someone just for the sake of talking to someone? Well.. the harm is I have to hear about this guy whine about not being in a relationship.

After talking to him for approx a month, he started whining, not knowing where he was going in life and the fact that he was still in school (which I understand because I went through it, BUT I WAS 23!!!). Then he tells me girls online are calling him ugly and scary (STOP TALKING TO THEM THEN!). He dated his "best friend" for few months, but had to keep it a secret because her parents wanted her to date a Viet person. They had stupid traditions like their birthdays were in the same month and so they called themselves the "moon buddies" or some shit, like WHAT THE FUCK?! I told him that was so juvenile! He always made Viet references (food, random words) I AM NOT VIET! He also complains how he needs to be in a relationship to feel whole! Like BUDDY WTF?? PLUS!! The guy got a passport to come to Canada to see me (dang.. maybe he thinks something can actually happen)!

And finally, he has asked me to marry him several times. AND talked about having kids, but I told him I'm not about that! If I knew how to take pictures of conversations on my phone I would and post them.. 

Needy Baby #2
Specs:
33 Years Old
Still lives with parents, he will move out when he's married
Came to Canada when he was 22 from the Philippines

I've been talking to a guy in Hamilton, he's a registered murse (male nurse), great job, but way too needy! He asked me if he can take me out on a date, which I thought was sweet. After I agreed to meet him, he is rushing into meeting me. I had to stop the breaks and tell him I will meet him in about 2 weeks.. But now, I'm not so sure I want to him at all. I asked him if he likes to travel, he said yes and asked me to go on a trip with him. Like BUDDY!! I DON'T KNOW YOU!! We have never met!! 

I showed my friend Nancy a picture of him... Nancy is one of those friends who is labeled as "the nice one" among your friends. As soon as she saw his picture the first thing she said was, "I don't like him". The girl who lives on the notion "give everyone a try" tells me there is something off about him.. Then I tell her about the travel conversation and she tells me to delete him and move on to another person. Perhaps she's on to something!?

Our last conversation before I BLOCK-Delete him.



Conclusion:
I will be "drop(ping) it (them) like it's hot"! These two guys are so needy, both are in the field of medicine!? If these two don't grow a pair, they are going to get trampled by some woman who's going to use them.

Best of luck to them!! Sigh.. back to the drawing board for me....

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