Finally!! It Is Done...

So.. I said I had something juicy..

My juicy story is that I lent Kangta money and he hadn't paid me back. Soo... I sued him!
The day when I told him it was over I gave him 3 days to pay me back. A week later, no response, I took legal action. So, at the end of March I started the proceedings. No one knew except for my coworker who gets the play by play of my life whether she likes it or not. Only a few of my tier 1 friends know, but it is something I kept to myself.

The day before my court date he calls and had the audacity to tell me he was going to make a partial payment today (Wednesday) and the rest on Friday and to trust him. For what he had put me through since March, I was NOT going to back down or show an ounce of compassion.

Long story short he gave me the money in FULL!! I had to talk to him regarding closing the case now.. He had asked me to call him. I did.. He said he takes full responsibility, and that he's not even mad or upset that I did this. He said he didn't mean for this to happen and what he was going through had nothing to do with me. He acknowledged I didn't deserve any of this and that he is truly sorry.. MANNN after that conversation, how can I be mad... He said we should meet up once he gets back in November. He wants to make sure we end things on good terms. 

When I went to court the next day, the judge was so happy for me. We were joking around and he had congratulated me on getting my full amount.

People ask me if I would get back together with him. I would like to when I think about the good times. But based on what we had gone through, there is no way of salvaging the trust, which makes me sad because I do think he was a good guy, just fell on hard times.

Back on the market I go!

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