Took my shot and missed!

 Sooo.. I took my shot with my Crush Trainer, aka just "Trainer" now.


During one of my training sessions, he told me how he wasn't invited to his family's Christmas party, because he is not vaccinated. So, I threw it out there that we should go for drinks. He said he was busy that weekend *maybe that was a hint*, but I wasn't asking for that weekend anyways, because I was busy. He then said tell me what you're holiday plans are, but after this set and never brought it up again. *maybe that was a hint*. 

But since I put it out there already, today, I thought I would give it a chance. I am actually not sure if he goes out with his clients, but I know he goes out with members at the gym. Anyways, that is besides the point. He went from Crush Trainer to Trainer. Should he ask me out, would I say yes? Probably.. But am I holding my breath? No... Will I be a little bit more nonchalant with my training? Who knows? I am not really disappointed, but I am sad that he didn't recommend another time and date.. Oh well.. I took my chance.. but perhaps I didn't phrase it the best way... That is because I have an emotional intelligence of an 8 year old.. so.. that was the best I can do.. 

It's very hard to date during the pandemic. With Omicron cases on the rise, it's even harder because the virus is so highly transmissible.  

Soo.. I asked a guy that I am speaking with if he wanted to meet, but he said no because of Covid, which is understandable.. I asked him if he wanted to video chat and he asked "Reason"? OMG WHATEVER!!!!! I am now done with this guy too.. sooo.. next!

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