Date 2/3 - Gym Guy

 A week later we went on date 2. Prior to going on this date, we were talking as often as we did prior to the first date, which I thought was a good sign. He planned our second date, it was to Ballrooom for bowling. Since I busted my knee, he asked if it was ok enough for me to go bowling. Note: I HATE bowling. I also warned him my face was not as nice looking as it was the previous date because I got microneedling done. While we were talking though out the week, he kept alluding to the fact that he could take care of me, I can potentially quit my job or I can go work for him. I should also note, that when I asked when we were going to meet he said 2026. 

He seemed super frazzled because he was running late, that is because I'm the one who was first running late and pushed the meet up time by 10 minutes, he came 20 minutes after that. When we started bowling, I told him, I HATE bowling.. He asked me why I didn't say anything, I told him, no one has ever planned a date for me; which is a really sad statement. While we were waiting he told me that a league had asked him to join after seeing him bowl, so I thought he was good.. lets just say he was not.. he didn't even break 100 the first two games. He also was not able to find a ball that fit his fingers, so his finger kept popping when he released the ball. The third game we decided to bet, he had to give me 40 point handicap. I still lost, by a lot. Normally when I bowl, my first game I am at least at around 100, but I couldn't get past 50 this time around. Our bet was if I win, he has to teach me to golf (he said he's been golfing since 3 and there were articles written about him); he won I would take him to get a facial. He won..

Throughout the night he wanted to hug me, he knows that I don't like PDAs. I kept swatting his hand away. 

That night was actually Weedman night. We were drinking, everytime I went to the bathroom, he would order more drinks. One of the times I went to the bathroom, it was 8:30pm and I thought GREAT I can wrap this up in an hour and then go home to meet Weedman. When I went to the bathroom again after that it was 10:30pm, since the date was going well, I had to cancel on Weedman telling him I wasn't feeling well. 

We left after 12am, I had paid for the drinks. I thought I was going to be cute and pay for the first round without him knowing and then I paid for the drinks again after bowling because it was SOOOO cheap; only to realize, I had spent $200 on drinks. Anyways, after we paid, he offered to walk me home, it was going to be a 3 hour walk, but I said ok. When we got outside, he had his wallet and his phone, but he couldn't find his keys. He looked where he was dropped off, we went back into Ballroom, they didn't have it. The panic in his face made me realize this wasn't a play. I offered to let him stay in my place and we can think about next steps in the morning. He offered to grab the Uber, but because this is our second date, I didn't want him to have my address. 

Once I got to my place, he mentioned he was hungry, then to realize we only had a plate of fries to share. He didn't have dinner, his options were Apache Burgers, Tim Hortons, or Wendy's. I warned him about Apache, that it's not that good.. but he decided to eat it. While he was eating, I took a shower. After my shower he mentioned he wasn't feeling well. We went to bed shortly after. Oddly the last drink at Ballroom hit us at the same time. **funny note: After grabbing Apache Burger when we were in our hallway he decided he knew where I lived, we turned the wrong way and almost went into the wrong unit**.

We slept beside each other with nothing happening. He wanted to cuddle, but the dude is like a furnace. In the middle of the night he pulled away because he was too hot. Throughout in the morning we did nothing but cuddle; he then says he wanted to cuddle me while we were bowling. We started making out, but prior to that I had a sex dream with him. While we were making out, I said I would be ok with having sex. We had established that we wouldn't sleep together, so it was unexpected, but he had a stomach ache from the burger. I figured, since it was the next day, this would be date 3.