Is Snob, Gym Guy? Why Does It Feel Like Deja Vu?

 I have been speaking with a guy whom we will call Snob, but I might change that that older Gym Guy. The way he talks is very reminiscent of Gym Guy and that’s probably why I can’t stop thinking about him. 

Like Gym Guy, snob is very busy with his job and is constantly on the go. Is that their out when the date doesn’t go well? They have tattoos that I am not too fond of. Snob made a reference, insinuating that because I met him that my life would be better. 

Similarities:

  • they both wake up at 4am
  • they think they can change the world, steps not too sure
  • they are in the midst of writing a book
  • they are not happy with where they are in life; working towards getting better - I guess that's a good thing
  • think they can help me
  • at times would say shit to make me feel dumb, but you can easily call them out on them, it's their communication
  • sends me random pics - Gym guy sent me pics of him as a baby, shirtless pics; Snob sent me pics of a suspension for his car, shirtless pic, and his tattoo progress pic
  • possibly have family drama?!
  • Snob - he "planned" a date, but didn't happen. I knew by Friday, it wasn't going to happen.
  • Gym Guy - was supposed to plan our 4th date, but never did
Going around in circles to find a guy is exhausting. I did not renew Bumble! I paid $159 plus tax for 3 months!! What a waste of money and time. I have exactly 7 days or else I will be cut off. At this point I don't care. I am traveling almost every other week. 

I still have BB29 whom I have a crush on and there is still Weedman, although, I don't know how long that's going to last. I may need to swap him out soon.. I think finding a replacement for Weedman would be a lot easier than finding a guy to date.

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