Online Dating In The City

Sooo.. I was speaking with a guy named Jason. I don't know if he's a scammer or not, but lets just say he is. The thing that I liked about him was that he wasn't sending me hundred and one messages and asking me why I read his messages and not respond. I didn't need to respond to him right away and I didn't need to speak to him everyday. I wasn't growing attached to him or anything, but he was someone I was able to tolerate. Specs: Chinese - came here when he was young  Age: 45 Parents live in North York, but he lives in Kingston Has a 19 year old son Was married long time ago, but his wife left him Let me just say he looks REALLY good for a 45 year old. I asked him about his skin regimen, he said essence.. Which is something a friend also suggested for hydrated and glowing skin. But honestly, I was getting bored of this conversation. It's not really going anywhere and I didn't want to entertain. So, I suggested we meet up. He said no because of Covid nu...

 Sooo.. I took my shot with my Crush Trainer, aka just "Trainer" now. During one of my training sessions, he told me how he wasn't invited to his family's Christmas party, because he is not vaccinated. So, I threw it out there that we should go for drinks. He said he was busy that weekend *maybe that was a hint*, but I wasn't asking for that weekend anyways, because I was busy. He then said tell me what you're holiday plans are, but after this set and never brought it up again. *maybe that was a hint*.  But since I put it out there already, today, I thought I would give it a chance. I am actually not sure if he goes out with his clients, but I know he goes out with members at the gym. Anyways, that is besides the point. He went from Crush Trainer to Trainer. Should he ask me out, would I say yes? Probably.. But am I holding my breath? No... Will I be a little bit more nonchalant with my training? Who knows? I am not really disappointed, but I am sad that he di...

During the holidays, I always believe in the Christmas magic. That is why I have been watching 2 holiday movies a day. All these holiday movies have one thing in common. The girl and the guy always find love! Why is that? Hallmark puts on rose coloured glasses and makes everything so rosie and optimistic. The main characters who do not believe in love always end up finding love in these movies.  But how about me??? I believe in love and yet I can't find it. Sigh. I don't have the balls to tell Crush Trainer that I like him. I think about calling Weedman or Youngin and the thought of them makes me cringe (not so much Weedman). Youngin is still probably going no where in life. He is now in his 30s and still living with his mom. Just even talking to him, I want to punch myself for inviting him back into my life. He is what we call an instant regret. Weedman, there is nothing really wrong with him. He have good conversation, on paper he is what I want in a guy. But I feel/felt that...

Sooo.. this is the same guy as "Another Scammer - I need to teach a Master Class" . Instead of writing about it, I have decided to post our screen shots. The guy who lives at Spadina Subway station, who is learning Astro Chemistry through his relatives (pt 2). Background - so this guy doesn't want to meet until we develop an online relationship. I don't know how many ways I can say no, I am not going to waste my time developing a virtual relationship. I thought I would see how long this would last and I would say, 3 days is long enough.  There were a lot of misunderstandings and miscommunications, I don't understand his logic. I told him I was Korean, but that I was raised here and then he asks if I am a half blood? What the fuck is that? Just speaking with him my frustrations grew because I had no idea what he was talking about or referring to. Sometimes this Chinese fob makes sense and other times, I have no fucking idea what he is trying to say. To him, because...

 OMG I think I need a life! Or a hobby, I am having way too much fun with these Chinese scammers... Stats: Lives Downtown Toronto 7 Spadina Rd, Toronto  Studying Astrochemistry Went to university in Shanghai to study Finance; currently work as a manager in finance Try Googling 7 Spading Road and see what pops up. It's the fucking Spadina subway stations! I don't know if you can see the address, but the condemned building next door is 9 Spadina Rd. Omg our conversations are just confusing. Mainly because he is from mainland China and he doesn't know what he's saying OR maybe he does and he just wants to confuse me. I just asked him if he has been going to U of T he says, "I seldom(ly) go" he asks his relatives. How are you fucking learning about Astrochemistry by asking his fucking relatives? Is that like me asking my accounting friends about finance? Am I studying for finance then? I am finding that these scammers tend to be engineers working for oil and gas c...

 Sooo.... Apparently I am a magnet for these Chinese scammers!!! I randomly got a message on WhatsApp in Chinese. I Google translated it and it basically said "Hi Gina, I got your number from ....... I am interested in buying a property." I pretty much wrote back and was like I am not Chinese and I am not Gina. I pretty much deleted our messages as we went along because I knew I didn't want to speak with this guy, but he kept persisting.  Stats:  Chinese Lives in California Has been in the States for 3 years Apparently looking to buy a place  So I asked him if he was looking to buy a place in Toronto because he messaged a 416 number. He said housing prices in Toronto is too high... Yet, he can afford to buy a place in Cali? Assuming he's looking to buy in SF or LA? Toronto housing prices are expensive, but you can always look outside of Toronto. Anyways, he seemed shady anyways. He kept asking me what he should call me, instead of saying, "what's your name?...

 Sooo.. Apparently I am not supposed to ask out guys... Stats: Chinese Works for his uncle because his uncle is sick and the uncle only has a daughter who is still in high school Drives a Mercedes S450 Came to Canada about 5 years ago Has a sister and parents are in China One thing I admired about this guy was that he seemed to have great work ethics. He seems to work hard because he wants to provide a better life for himself, his family, and take care of his family back home. He sees it as his responsibility to take care of his parents, instead of taking care of this parents with his sister. He kept talking about a better life for him and his family, which I understand; he is in the hustle. I felt like our conversation was going well, so I thought I would suggest that we meet up. Since I have an opening this weekend, I thought, "hey why not?". My next opening in my calendar is December. The response I got back from him was, pretty much, if I was available I would have asked ...