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Date 2/3 - Gym Guy Continues

As we were sleeping and I was holding him (I am the big spoon), I thought to myself, I hope he finds safety in me. When he lost his keys, I don't know where he would've stayed. As for me, I would've just called one of my friends to see if I can sleepover. But I would never be in that situation. The whole night and morning he was only worried about his keys and how he was going to get into the gym and his home. We grabbed coffee from Starbucks (he paid) and came back to my place and started watching Netflix. After, he kept pacing around my apartment, so I offered to take him out for a walk. We were slowly finding ways to get his keys. He was able to obtain his gym key, but the house key was not as easy to obtain because his landlord is currently out of town. We drove to the lake to go for a walk to kill time, I asked him if he was hungry and we decided to eat lunch after our walk; but turns out he was actually starving. He thought he saw a mattress on our walk, but it was a ...

Date 2/3 - Gym Guy

 A week later we went on date 2. Prior to going on this date, we were talking as often as we did prior to the first date, which I thought was a good sign. He planned our second date, it was to Ballrooom for bowling. Since I busted my knee, he asked if it was ok enough for me to go bowling. Note: I HATE bowling. I also warned him my face was not as nice looking as it was the previous date because I got microneedling done. While we were talking though out the week, he kept alluding to the fact that he could take care of me, I can potentially quit my job or I can go work for him. I should also note, that when I asked when we were going to meet he said 2026.  He seemed super frazzled because he was running late, that is because I'm the one who was first running late and pushed the meet up time by 10 minutes, he came 20 minutes after that. When we started bowling, I told him, I HATE bowling.. He asked me why I didn't say anything, I told him, no one has ever planned a date for me; ...

Date 1 - Gym Guy

  As of right now, I have gone on 3ish dates with GG.  Gym Guy ("GG") owns a gym profile says 5' 4 2 had a gf got a place together broke up around Covid possibly drinks too much (drinks 2-4) glasses a day with maybe one day off I think has gone through a lot in his life, a lot of hardship - I was correct seems to be down to earth I'm supposed to go on a date with this guy on Saturday, I told him where and what time.. lets see what he comes up with Date 1: Four Seasons dBar This was out of convenience. I was celebrating my friend's birthday in Yorkville we first went for a scalp analysis and wash at Objibik   and then had high tea at Four Seasons dBar . Since I was already there I told GG to meet me, while I was there I made a reservation at dAzur , their patio. I had to change the meet up time because I wanted to spend more time with my friend; his flexibility was appreciated. He actually came 10 minutes early. I didn't even have a chance to see my friend off,...

Paying Bumble Update: 1

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 I have been paying for Bumble for about 2 weeks now. This is what has happened so far..... Guy 1 - Gym Guy ("GG") owns a gym profile says 5'4 had a gf got a place together broke up around Covid possibly drinks too much (drinks 2-4) glasses a day with maybe one day off I think has gone through a lot in his life, a lot of hardship seems to be down to earth I'm supposed to go on a date with this guy on Saturday, I told him where and what time.. lets see what he comes up with Guy 2 - Chef he's a chef Dad is getting married in Thailand to a Thai Woman he's going to the wedding in a few weeks for 4-5 weeks can only meet on Saturdays at 10pm, Sundays and Mondays (these are all my fucking sleep hours) seems to be nice loves whiskey - wants to go on a whiskey date, but on at 10pm? I don't think so.. on a Sunday? I don't think so, on a Monday? I don't think so... So, I don't think this whiskey tour is happening we will probably do a Sunday brunch and se...

Background on BB28

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 I met BB28 ( check out his specs ) at work. The first time I met him was in LA when I went for business. My boss always had people dropping by, whether they were friends or clients. I paid no attention to him. I just remember him sitting on a kitchen stool and waiting for my boss. I was in a group chat with him didn't think much of it. Just needed to book some meetings.. blah blah blah.. Fast forward few months later, he messaged me. BB28 was coming into our Toronto office. He worked for a major company that had a major layoff and was meeting with my boss again. He came into our office, met with my boss and CFO and before leaving, came by my office and thanked me for booking the meeting, I thought that was nice. Approximately a month later, I was at a Dr's office, so I wasn't at work, I was getting flurry of messages saying BB28 was in the office and was now working for our company. I thought.. well.. that was nice of my boss to tell me this was happening.  BB28 spends mon...

One Last Time (I Hope)!!

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 YOOOO again! It's been a minute! Since my last post I have been crushing on a guy for about a year. Specs: 28 years old - turning 29 in a few weeks tall cute travels (mainly for points) like expensive things His nickname?!!? I was calling him Balla Balla 28; but my friend said it was too long so we shortened it to BB28. At the moment it seems like a Baby Reindeer situation.. like Baby Reindeer, when I stop bugging him he will either send me a text or come by my office. Is Weedman still around? The answer.... yes.. why give up consistent sex?  I went out to dinner last week for my friend's bday... and this friend has been suggesting that I pay for Bumble; that is where she met the love of her life (honestly he is a great guy). Talking to her other friends, I decided to bite the bullet. I have decided to pay for Bumble! I know the last time I paid for a dating site it was a BIG waste of money. But I am hoping Bumble will prove me wrong.  I am going to pay for Bumble for 6 ...

Thought It Was Going To Be Kismet

 I went on Bumble because I was falsely hopeful yet again... My work friend have gone on some amazing dates (she pays for Bumble, I should real pay at least for two month). The date that I recently went on. Specs: 42 We actually went to the same middle school and high school YouTube content creator - Toronto & Travel content Smart/Intelligent Lives at Yonge and Eg No car Broke up with this girlfriend 6 months ago Father passed First it had annoyed me that he wanted me to pick the time and the place. The first, first date we were supposed to go on he cancelled because his friend was moving to NY and they were throwing a going away party. That was fine, I ended up flying out to Vancouver for the weekend. When we picked a new date, again, I had to pick a time and place. Since my girlfriends and I were going to do brunch in Toronto, I decided to meet at 2:30pm at a cafe by Bloor and Christie. I also wanted Hodo Kwaja (Walnut Cake) and I needed to pick up new face lotion, so it was ...