Online Dating In The City

 So, I continue to see Weedman, but because it is physical, there are no emotional attraction towards him. Instead, there is an emotional attraction towards my trainer, who is often referred to as Crush Trainer (not to be mistaken by Douche Bag Mike and Wall Fuck Trainer). But obviously my relationship with Crush Trainer is a forced relationship, I pay him to meet me, so we are not exactly friends.... Just crushing on the side. Stats on Crush Trainer: 9 years younger from my real age Seems to have his shit together drivers standard (has a newer model of my car) rides a motorcycle (HOT) reads stunt actor  is into WWII, even though it's more on the war/battalion side while I am interested in the Nazi and Holocaust side mature - looks young, but he is mature When I had my initial call for an assessment to work with a physio trainer, I knew I wanted my Crush Trainer; not because I thought he was cute, but because I have seen him with his clients. He is a mature trainer who is not ...

 It's been a while since I have written anything. To give you the down and dirty here are some updates. When restrictions lifted a little Mama Jo was at it again looking for my next potential. There too many horny losers out there, so why not just keep the one that I have? Here are some of the losers I met via online during Covid: Telsa Guy - when this guy messaged Mama Jo, his online handle was BMW boy. If it was me, I would not have messaged him back. My friends know I think BMW drivers are the WORST drivers! Yes, Weedman drives a BMW, I full told him and he acknowledges. The reason why this guy's name is Tesla Guy is because ALL HE DID WAS TALK ABOUT HIS FUCKING TESLA! Even when I tried to change the conversation, it ALWAYS came back to his Tesla! So, I just ghosted him. Below is my last conversation with him. I love cars, but I don't love people bragging about their cars. Benevolent Guy -  This guy I think is a nice guy. He saves all his vacation days to volunteer, whic...

So, I should have realized Weedman as just going to be a fuck boy... literally and figuratively.. Our conversation sort of just fizzled after a while, but "I thought hey we are compatible in bed, so why not just keep him around!?" This may or may not have been a good idea...  I would just message him when I wanted to hook up, which he was always in agreeance to. Eventually I thought maybe we should make this more consistent because we were hooking up every other week anyways. So, I suggested we hook up every other week and we alternate places, he said that was a good idea. I am noticing more and more that more we meet up there is one less thing we do. Without going into too much detail, he is starting to meet up later and later AND he doesn't message me until after our scheduled time to tell me he is running late. Most recently we stopped kissing good bye, the we stopped hugging good bye. I know this is purely for sex so I shouldn't expect "relationshipy" st...

 Not that I have all the confidence in the world, but I do know when to cut people off and I know what I deserve. My guy friends were shocked and shook their heads at me when I told them about me sleeping with Weedman on my first date, while my girl friends praised and wanted to know more details. My group of friends and I are late bloomers in life, I have only slept with 4 people (inclusive of Weedman). There are some bad decisions I made which both my guy friends and girl friends let me have it and gave me a lecture.  Things with Weedman have died, not that we got into a fight or anything, we just stopped messaging each other. My last message was to him on Sunday, August 23rd and he read it and no response or no new dialogue. At this point, I am not chasing this guy. That week, I had an emotionally hard week. I went to a funeral yesterday where I had to see a childhood friend bury his dad and that brought up all the feelings again about my dad.  I am too exhausted for t...

*Again, writing this while I wait for my date with Mr. Weedman* Soooo... tell me how he is late again!! How does he not know I do not like tardiness. This time he was only 14mins, so I guess he is getting better. But again as soon as he told me he parked and was on his way, I reminded him to bring a mask then he tells me he forgot his mask in his car, so he had to go back... AGAIN! The starting of this date is deja vu. We are in days of Corona he should be used to carrying around a fuck'n mask! I told him he needed those lanyards that old people use for their glasses, but for his mask. So the date went well, but then again, I think all my dates go well until there is no second date. He wanted Korean food so we went to Korea House on Bloor and Christie. We were going to meet at 7:30pm, but as mentioned above he was late!  When he arrived I asked him about something about his place (I can't remember what it was) and he said you can see for yourself. Even though he lived 15 mins ...

 When you are on these dating apps you realize that people who are on one are on multiple, just like I am. Even though I swipe left some people come back to my rotation, sometimes weeks after, but sometimes 5 swipes later. I have decided to reach out to a matching service after multiple friends have told me to look into it. One friend suggested I reach out to a service called Match Me Canada (www.matchmecanada.ca). I looked at their website, they are located in the financial district in Toronto, which  is a good sign seeing so rent is super high. I equate that to them being successful. They do not have pricing on their website, so I had to schedule a call to see what they were all about. I spoke with Rebecca who is a match maker and she informed me what the service was all about. They have a coaching staff and people who research to find mates, one thing I like about this is that you can get feedback, which is something you cannot get on a dating app. For instance, I thought m...

 This is my first time going out on a date with a dad. Specs: Chinese 39 Dad to a 3 year old who is on the spectrum Separated for 2 years, amicable break up Lives and works in Vaughan Born in Indian Speaks 6 languages (English, Cantonese, Mandarin, Hakka, Hindi, and something else...)  Met on Bumble Things in common I have with this guy is that we like to drink and we started hitting the gym again. I went on a date with, lets say Mr. Hakka (that is the language he speaks with his parents). I know... I went out to play on a weekday! But during this pandemic why not? I was actually surprised when he said lets meet up on Tuesday, we were matched up on Saturday and 3 days later we met up. During our online conversation I asked him where he grew up, he said that was a conversation to have over beer, I was intrigued. Today we were talking to each other throughout the day, he had gone to the gym and skipped lunch. He actually showed up on our date at 6:05pm when the date was for 6:30...